May 2012
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On Love
Love is more than just boxes of chocolates & bouquets of flowers & jewelries and diamond, presents. It is about you thinking you’re giving nothing but to them it’s everything. Love overlooks money & fails to look at all the material things. It is more than just saying sorry and forgiving.
Love is about learning from your mistakes & trying not to make the same ones over and over....
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Anonymous asked: Dear Carmela, what is like to be happy?
Anonymous asked: I need some help on what to get boyfriend for his birthday any ideas? or do?
g1no-bear asked: Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Anonymous asked: hello, i think nobody likes me all of my friends have boyfriends, and i am the only one who is single. I'm starting to think that i' am ugly or something like that...But then i think: is a boyfriend everything in life? but it's really hard to get this tought to be my inspiration... when you never had a boyfriend. (sorry for my english)
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April 2012
28 posts
Anonymous asked: Which dental schools are you looking at? And what undergrad college do you currently go to? I kinda wanna be a dentist too!
Anonymous asked: Dear Carmela, i like this boy but he has a girlfriend and they seem so happy it's beautiful but i can't get him out of my head.. i'm going crazy!!
Anonymous asked: What are the top 5 things on your bucket list?
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Listen to your Heart
John has taught me many things in the length of our relationship. There was a short period where in my mind, there was no reason to stay and that every single thought process occurring in my head led me to give up on our relationship. I realized, that was the biggest problem. I listened only to what my brain was telling me. At that time, I chose to only believe what I thought was the most rational...
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Everyday is different. Everyday is a mystery. Everyday is a whirlwind of spontaneous and uncontrolled circumstances and events. One moment, it feels like you are on a cloud 9, sitting on top like you’re the king or queen of the world. The next, you feel like your world just shatters in a million pieces and you can’t even begin to explain how to start picking up the fragments of your...
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I Remember.
I remember now, because it went from my heart feeling like it was going to jump out of my chest when I saw your name pop up on my little flip phone, to falling in love and telling you I do, under my breath, barely conscious, to that ridiculous, my heart really starts aching after spending days with you and we’d have to separate for a few hours kind of loving you and that it hurts ‘cause I will...
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flyinether asked: thank you for that o_o so general would be better than local ? i don't like pain...
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Wisdom Teeth
Dr: Your upper right wisdom tooth is both broken and infected. The good news is - It should be pretty easy to remove.
Patient: Right now?
Dr: Probably take about five minutes, sure.
Pt: Hmm. But is it ok to remove?
Dr: Well, if you had a really huge infection then that might complicate things, but I think it'll be fine in your case.
Pt: No, but I mean...it's a wisdom tooth.
Dr: That is correct. And it's basically shot - there is no saving it, only a lot of discomfort if we don't remove it.
Pt: But what about the wisdom?
Dr: (Where? I don't see any...) "Errrr....I'm sorry?"
Pt: It's a wisdom tooth.
Dr. (back on solid footing) Yes!
Pt: So won't it affect...my...um....you know....
Dr: (please be kidding please be kidding please...) "...um.....I'm afraid I don't...."
Pt: My wisdom.
Dr: Like, your intelligence?
Pt: I guess.
Dr: (trying really hard to not be condescending) Um, "wisdom tooth" is sort of an expression - they don't show up 'til you're older and presumably wiser...Not actually tied to any wisdom, uh..... (am I REALLY having this conversation?)
Pt: Oh. Just checking. So, can you knock me out?
Dr: (You're conscious now? Really?) Um we can get you numb...you'll feel only pressure.
Pt: What if it goes to my brain?
Dr: What, the anesthetic?
Pt: Yeah. I don't want my brain numbed.
Dr: I can guarantee the anesthetic is the least of your concerns.....
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What She Doesn't Know Will Kill You
By: Matt Brochu November 21, 2003
You met her a few months ago, and somehow she managed to seep into your subconscious like that ‘Suga how you get so fly’ song. Just like you have no clue who the hell sings it, you don’t know why she’s there. But she is, whether you like it or not. You know her cell phone, her room phone. You can dial her Aunt Doreen’s house in West Springfield (where she...
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Never Promised
People walk in and out of our lives every single day. Sometimes, it’s a matter of brushing up against his or her shoulder while you find an open seat on a train back home. Sometimes, they are the barista that made your daily White Chocolate Mocha that morning before your 8 AM class. Sometimes, it’s a person who is sitting two rows behind you at the lecture hall that you made a quick eye contact...
“You must give up the life you planned in order to have the life that is waiting...”
– Joseph Campbell
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March 2012
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Anonymous asked: When a relationship becomes a routine, whats there left to do ?
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Not Your Ordinary Girl
I could never look at another girl the way that I look at you. I can never imagine being with someone else even if it’s just to pretend. Not once I’ve ever thought about cheating on you because the thought of causing you an ounce of pain will bring me to my knees in tears. The thought of another girl with their hands wrapped around me brings a great deal of pain to my heart because that could...
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The Past No Longer Exists
When shit hits the fan, I tend to look back at the past & how it used to be. I tend to reminisce on just how easy going it was, on how beautiful, how carefree & most of all, how perfect things were. But when reality sinks in, I know my dreaming pretty much needs to end.
Let’s face it; things do not change over night, as much as things don’t always stay the same. The only thing that is...
pnesss asked: How do you know when it's time to let go?
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“The best thing in life is finding someone who knows all of your flaws, mistakes,...”
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Attention to Details
Hey, you look very nice today. I see you decided to straighten your hair today, you must’ve not had enough time to curl it like yesterday. Yea, of course I noticed, I notice when you cut it an inch shorter to get rid of the split ends or when you color it a darker shade of brown.
I see you got some new earrings. They go well with the necklace you bought last week. I’ve never seen that jacket...
jordeeeezy asked: My ex recently broke up with me 5 weeks ago. I asked her many times to take me back and that I've changed but I've only started to annoy her. She said she wants her space and now I'm suffocating her. But I'm learning to accept and resourcing her decisions. I just want to say that yours and the anon's story give me hope that we will be together again. Thank you for such an...
ayarosaila asked: You inspire me so much with your writing. I come to your tumblr every once in a while to check on your updates. Thank you for making me see things in a different angle. xx
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