January 2012
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“Sometimes you just need to take a deep breath and hold it in. Exhale and look...”
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There’s so many things I’d rather not know about. But knowing I have the power and the means to do so makes it seem like I am digging my own grave. Just ‘cause I know I can, doesn’t mean I should.
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Anonymous asked: What are some things men could do to make a women's day brighter?
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“Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don’t put up with people who are...”
– Baz Luhrman
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On Love and Time
Time and time again, we come to hear how powerful love can be and how much lessons it can institute into our hearts and minds. Some are still out there searching, trying to find out the answers on how or who, and others, they are fortunate enough to see it with their own two eyes and know just by the experiences they have gone through.
Love might be powerful and illuminating, however, there...
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First Time
It was the first time we had spoken in awhile. First time it felt normal. Without pain, without bitterness, without jealousy and anger. Friends. I used to dread the day that this would happen. Thinking if we could go from completely enthralled in each others lives, to simply a “Hello” and “How are you?”, that what we had hoped for together just wasn’t enough for us to hold on.
I used to think...
Anonymous asked: Your words are inspiring, your soul is unique. Thank you for writing.
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When Love Fails
Some time ago, I ran into the quote “Love fails us, that’s because we fail love first”. At that time, I never fully understood what that saying meant, as far as my own interpretation. Love fails at least more than once in our lifetime. Love isn’t perfect. Never was, never is & never will it ever be.
I believe it is bound to happen to each & everyone of us. Sometimes, we tend to focus too...
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Well, Today is Not That Day
There are certain mornings when I wake up, look over to other side of the bed and see the break of sunlight as it protrude right in between the blinds. I stop for a moment and think,“Good morning, Sunshine”. And so, I grab my eye glasses on my nightstand, fish for my iPhone which I later find stuck somewhere underneath one of my three pillows, I thank God for another day.
As I check for messages,...
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“It’s sad when people you know become people you knew. When you can walk right...”
– Unknown
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Woman to the Next Woman
Because I have been treated like a princess, and likewise treated like shit, by men predestined to walk in and out of my life, still, I have never wanted anything other than happiness in whatever they do or desire, regardless how good or bad our relationship might have ended (except one, that bitch).
So to the next woman in line, here’s something I’d like to share, woman to woman.
“Your man,...
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Perfect Timing
There’s just so many people in the world we are bound to meet. Whether we meet them while we’re waiting for the 7 o’clock Bart ride to Downtown San Francisco or at a local Starbucks while waiting for our daily Grande Caramel Frappuccino, maybe ten, maybe close to twenty, we’ll see new faces on a daily basis. There are the ones that we just say a simple, “Hello” to, ones we become long term friends...
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December 2011
11 posts
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misskryzz asked: Carmela, that "STAYING, EVEN WHEN LOVE DOESN’T" post of yours really got me. I haven't been on tumblr much due to finals being next week, but I'm extremely glad that I was able to catch your post. To be honest, it made me tear up. It isn't relevant to my life right now, but it was months ago. It took me a long time to realize everything you have said in your post. I...
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Staying, Even When Love Doesn't
A few weeks ago, I have received an anonymous question that asked, “How can you tell if you’re in love with someone or if you’re just used to him or her?” My first thought? Well, shit.
I sat on this question for a while. In fact to this very day, I still do not know how to answer without evaluating my own credibility of making an attempt to respond. However, today, I thought about a...
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Anonymous asked: What is your most frequent emotion?
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Anonymous asked: D M P W X :>
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November 2011
33 posts
Anonymous asked: Do you believe in God or a higher being? Do you pray? What do you Pray for? Do you follow any organized religion? What does this belief give you?
Anonymous asked: V ?
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emynence asked: In your opinion, what are some ways to tell when a dude is feeling you?
Anonymous asked: H, I, N, Q, R, S
geeooo asked: G E O
kennywins asked: R. Hi Carmela :)
Anonymous asked: How do you stay grounded despite all the luxuries life offers you? You have everything. And what I really have to say is that you're a perfect girl. One who speaks her heart.
lckillah asked: T =]
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Distance And Time
“A Long distance relationship is better than a short distance relationship.”
I see people on Tumblr compare these two a lot and the majority believes that long distance relationships are way better than being with someone closer. Well, I beg to differ.
First of all, a relationship is a relationship, nonetheless. Second of all, why would one be better than the other? I guess you can say people...
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Anonymous asked: how has tumblr changed you?
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